Ask Sara: ‘Why Am we constantly a close friend or a Fling?’
Throughout my (unsuccessful) many years of searching for “the one”—or at least someone—there is a pattern that is clear. It’s one of two situations: 1) I’m buddies with a man and a crush is had by me, but he will not reciprocate, so we end up being buddies. Or, 2) a fling is had by me and I also want to carry on it and have always been a little interested, but he’s not, end of story.
so that the essence is that I always find yourself as either a buddy or even a fling, but we never appear to cause any intimate emotions in some guy.
i actually do genuinely believe that an element of the explanation we turn into a pal is simply because we was raised with two older brothers, and I’m kind of familiar with the being-around-guys that are whole. And I also guess i’ve some alleged “male characteristics” in I am not afraid to have an opinion that I enjoy critical conversation, and. I might additionally state that I’m self-confident, and I also could keep up with all the dudes whenever it concerns consuming. My theory is dudes feel intimidated by me, and so the girlfriend-thing is not actually an option, but apparently they nevertheless think I’m hot enough for the one-night stand.
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